Upgrade your life make it Toxic Free, From Friends to Boyfriends.

Happy New Year everyone this is my first blog since 2012 I’ve been a little busy and I have some new projects on the horizons that I’m so excited about, But first a quick word of advise for my dedicated blog readers. The hardest part is always the lift off, just know that you’re closer than you think to your “Greatest Self”.

We live in a toxic world and its hard to stay away from it but there are a few techniques you can do to make sure that you’re world is toxic free, evaluate yourself, don’t worry about your pass but don’t forget it, forgetting causes you to repeat the mistakes, only live in the present and while you can’t always plan for tomorrow make sure you prepare for it.

Those Toxic Friends get rid of them, if you find yourself with your friends and the only thing you can talk about is how bad some other girl looked at a party or whose man doesn’t want them, let them go they are toxic and they are poisoning you. Friends live, love and laugh together not team up and tear others down it will back fire and the universe will hold everything that would have made you great back from you. Life is too short to waste it not living.

Toxic relationships the men and women in our lives who don’t really make us happy and your relationship becomes a job instead of an instinct, there are certain key things that I do in my relationships and it works for me, however it might not work for you. Because I work in the Entertainment industry to maintain the years in my relationship I do the following:

1- I don’t date anyone in the entertainment sector
2- We are Not friends on Facebook
3- I never change my relationship status on Facebook
4- We don’t follow each other on twitter and we never mention each other either
5- We don’t go to popular parties together, our “We time” is never spent in too public of a situation

Those are my top 5 tips as it relates to my relationships and it has worked great thus far.

In a Man and Woman relationship its about team work and supporting each other, if I organize a bake sale in the middle of halfway tree my boyfriend will be there collecting the money while I share the cake, we always ask each other about work or projects we’re working on. I never feel like I have to please him or stroke his ego, its like my best friend and I are hanging out all the time.

But ridding your life of Toxins doesn’t start with reading a blog, it comes with experience and growing up and realizing after a while that one thing doesn’t make you happy and maybe you should try another. There are a lot of sad people in this world but with a little love and positive thinking and supportive people who influence you to do better, for every sad person then you can trust there is five (5) happy people.

“Nothing can stop a man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; Nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude” Thomas Jefferson

xoxoxo Love always Lauren O Lauren

For some people you won’t be enough, for others you will be too much the important thing is being right for yourself.